Min tale til Patrick

[Irishbride 0]

Her er så første udkatst til min tale til brylluppet i Montreal (jeg er jo nok nødt til at skrive 2. Der er ikke noget ved at holde den samme 2 gange)

Hvad synes I?? Er den for plat?? Det med de små gaver er jo en tradition i engelsk-talende lande. Vi har ikke helt fundet ud af, hvad det skal være, men det bliver nok noget irsk sølv-tøj.

Jeg vil vældig gerne hører jeres kommentarer - ros såvel som ris

"You may well be wondering what the Bride is doing making a speech. Well, those of you who know me well, know that I always have talked too much and usually find a way to get my two cents worth in so it probably is no surprise! I also wanted to say thank you to those deserving in my own words.

Firstly thanks to all of you for coming. I know that quite a few of you took time off work and travelled a long way to be here and I want to say how much it means to us to share our day with family and friends..

I'd like to say a few words about my Mum. She has been the best parent a girl could wish for and she is also my friend. My Mum is the most amazing person and she taught me to be independent from a very young age. I'm sure Patrick would NOT thank her for this as I am incredibly stubborn as a result - but it always made me aware that when I did get married, if I got married, it would be to the right man at the right time and that is certainly true. She is also an incredibly talented designer and seamstress and I cannot thank her enough for all the trouble she went to making my dress. That means so much to me and I'll remember it forever! thank you so much. This is a little gift for you.

Thank you to all the Montreal O'Briens. We could not have done this without you. People said we were mad trying to organize a wedding on the other side of the Atlantic, but here we are.

You have been an immense help and have provided us with great support in all our planning. Thank you to Patricks uncle Dan and Auntie Denise for being our sounding board, for putting us and some of our guests up, and for generally putting up with us and all our demands. Thank you to Linda for the gorgeous cake and not least to Giselle and Andre for being our Matron of Honour and Best Man. This is a little token of our gratitude.

We would not be here was it not for Mr. and Mrs Kelly. The idea of having a Montreal wedding was born over dinner at the Kellys, so in actual fact it is their fault that some of you have had to fork out for flight tickets to be here. Admittedly we did warm to the idea very quickly and had booked the church within a week. Mr. and Mrs Kelly very generously opened their house for me, my mum and Birthe today. I couldn't have wished for a better place to get ready for the big day. Your warmth and that lake view could calm the most rampant of nerves. For this we would like to present you with a little something.

So now I turn to my new Husband! Last but certainly not least. I want to thank you Patrick for a wonderful day! thank you for all your hard work in realising our dreams. Today has been so perfect.

In the run-up to the wedding I came across these 10 important rules to a healthy marriage:

Never both be angry at the same time.

Never Yell at each other unless the house on fire.

If one of you HAS to win an argument, let it be your mate.

If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.

Never bring up mistakes of the past.

Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

At least once everyday try to say one nice thing to your mate.

When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.

It takes 2 to quarrel and the one in the wrong is the one who does the talking.

I hope we can remember these rules and live by them. They are of course not easy to stick to all the time - we are human (and both very stubborn only-children) after all. But I am certain of one thing: We will do our very best and I can't imagine trying with anyone other than you, Patrick.

He is my biggest supporter, my best friend and now my husband! How fantastically lucky I am to get all that in one person.

You know, they say you should marry a rich man. I couldn't have married a richer man than Patrick. He is rich in inner strength, understanding and kindness, in forgiveness and patience. He is my everything and I am very proud to be Mrs O'Brien. I'd like to propose a toast to us!! The best is yet to come. "

Anna

Redigeret May 4, 2006 af Irishbride

[Irishbride 0]

Må nok hellere sige, at grunden til, at jeg ikke har sat noget ind om svigerne, er at de ikke er til stede ved brylluppet i Montreal. Jeg skal måske skrive noget om, at det er ærgerligt at de ikke kan være der, og så laver jeg selvfølgelig et afsnit om dem i Dublin

[Guest Signe Opstrup]

Never both be angry at the same time.

Never Yell at each other unless the house on fire.

If one of you HAS to win an argument, let it be your mate.

If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.

Never bring up mistakes of the past.

Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

At least once everyday try to say one nice thing to your mate.

When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.

It takes 2 to quarrel and the one in the wrong is the one who does the talking.

....rigtig god tale og gode råd. Min nyligt afdøde svigerfar (irer) sagde netop altid "never go to sleep with an argument unsettled" og det synes jeg er vigtigt. Super super tale

knus SIGNE

[Librian 3]

Som jeg skrev i din tråd, så synes jeg at det er en rigtig god tale

Kan godt lide de små råd

[Irishbride 0]

Tak for jeres søde kommentarer. Så er den da ikke helt henne i skoven. Jeg er lidt "bryllupsjomfru" - har kun været til 1 dansk, 1 tysk og 1 fransk bryllup. Så det er ikke mange bryllupstaler jeg har hørt i mit liv.

[misspuzzycatz 0]

Den er utrolig sød/smuk og "ægte" din tale....

Wo0ow!

Ser frem til og læse den du skriver til "dublin" brylluppet...

[Guest Katharina Stendys]

Her er så første udkatst til min tale til brylluppet i Montreal (jeg er jo nok nødt til at skrive 2. Der er ikke noget ved at holde den samme 2 gange)

Hvad synes I?? Er den for plat?? Det med de små gaver er jo en tradition i engelsk-talende lande. Vi har ikke helt fundet ud af, hvad det skal være, men det bliver nok noget irsk sølv-tøj.

Jeg vil vældig gerne hører jeres kommentarer - ros såvel som ris

"You may well be wondering what the Bride is doing making a speech. Well, those of you who know me well, know that I always have talked too much and usually find a way to get my two cents worth in so it probably is no surprise! I also wanted to say thank you to those deserving in my own words.

Firstly thanks to all of you for coming. I know that quite a few of you took time off work and travelled a long way to be here and I want to say how much it means to us to share our day with family and friends..

I'd like to say a few words about my Mum. She has been the best parent a girl could wish for and she is also my friend. My Mum is the most amazing person and she taught me to be independent from a very young age. I'm sure Patrick would NOT thank her for this as I am incredibly stubborn as a result - but it always made me aware that when I did get married, if I got married, it would be to the right man at the right time and that is certainly true. She is also an incredibly talented designer and seamstress and I cannot thank her enough for all the trouble she went to making my dress. That means so much to me and I'll remember it forever! thank you so much. This is a little gift for you.

Thank you to all the Montreal O'Briens. We could not have done this without you. People said we were mad trying to organize a wedding on the other side of the Atlantic, but here we are.

You have been an immense help and have provided us with great support in all our planning. Thank you to Patricks uncle Dan and Auntie Denise for being our sounding board, for putting us and some of our guests up, and for generally putting up with us and all our demands. Thank you to Linda for the gorgeous cake and not least to Giselle and Andre for being our Matron of Honour and Best Man. This is a little token of our gratitude.

We would not be here was it not for Mr. and Mrs Kelly. The idea of having a Montreal wedding was born over dinner at the Kellys, so in actual fact it is their fault that some of you have had to fork out for flight tickets to be here. Admittedly we did warm to the idea very quickly and had booked the church within a week. Mr. and Mrs Kelly very generously opened their house for me, my mum and Birthe today. I couldn't have wished for a better place to get ready for the big day. Your warmth and that lake view could calm the most rampant of nerves. For this we would like to present you with a little something.

So now I turn to my new Husband! Last but certainly not least. I want to thank you Patrick for a wonderful day! thank you for all your hard work in realising our dreams. Today has been so perfect.

In the run-up to the wedding I came across these 10 important rules to a healthy marriage:

Never both be angry at the same time.

Never Yell at each other unless the house on fire.

If one of you HAS to win an argument, let it be your mate.

If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.

Never bring up mistakes of the past.

Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

At least once everyday try to say one nice thing to your mate.

When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.

It takes 2 to quarrel and the one in the wrong is the one who does the talking.

I hope we can remember these rules and live by them. They are of course not easy to stick to all the time - we are human (and both very stubborn only-children) after all. But I am certain of one thing: We will do our very best and I can't imagine trying with anyone other than you, Patrick.

He is my biggest supporter, my best friend and now my husband! How fantastically lucky I am to get all that in one person.

You know, they say you should marry a rich man. I couldn't have married a richer man than Patrick. He is rich in inner strength, understanding and kindness, in forgiveness and patience. He is my everything and I am very proud to be Mrs O'Brien. I'd like to propose a toast to us!! The best is yet to come. "

Anna

Hej med dig.... rigtig flot tale, virkelig fangende...

Jeg har tilladt mig at komme med et par sproglige rettelser, håber det er okay

that I always have talked too much - That I have always talked to much

so it probably is no surprise - So it is probably no surprise

she went to making my dress - she went through making my dress

Never Yell at each other unless the house on fire - other unless the house is on fire

Det er ikke noget særligt... men bare et par enkelte rettelser!

Men igen... Virkelig smuk tale

[Gitte L 0]

Hej Anna.

Jeg syntes det er en meget smuk tale du har skrevet.

Jeg elsker det med, at hver gang i giver en gave ud - så siger du en anden sætning en den forrige. Det gør talen mere varieret, og personlig.

Du kan være kanon stolt :D

/Gitte

[Guest Krasdina]

Rigtig sød tale. Jeg synes du kan gøre det mere personligt ved at tale diekte til din mand i stedet for om ham. Forstår du hvad jeg mener?

God fornøjelse med alle 3

fra Christina

[Irishbride 0]

Jeg har tilladt mig at komme med et par sproglige rettelser, håber det er okay

Nej selvfølgelig da ikke.

Et par stykker er smuttere (kan godt se at der mangler et "is" ) og et par stykker er jeg ikke enig i Men det er nok den der med korrekt eller dagligdags engelsk

Hej Anna.

Jeg syntes det er en meget smuk tale du har skrevet.

Jeg elsker det med, at hver gang i giver en gave ud - så siger du en anden sætning en den forrige. Det gør talen mere varieret, og personlig.

Du kan være kanon stolt :D

/Gitte

Tak skal du have Gitte - ja det kunne godt blive lidt monotont ellers

Rigtig sød tale. Jeg synes du kan gøre det mere personligt ved at tale diekte til din mand i stedet for om ham. Forstår du hvad jeg mener?

God fornøjelse med alle 3

fra Christina

Hej christina, ja jeg forstår bestemt godt hvad du mener, og det er også rettet i mit word dokument her

Anna

[Guest Katharina Stendys]

He he.... ja det er det jo nok! Sproget er også rigtig godt, og det er en virkelig virkelig god tale!

Så bare lige nogle ting, som jeg så rettede, men ikke meningen at fornærme! Så det håber jeg ikke jeg har gjort

[Irishbride 0]

He he.... ja det er det jo nok! Sproget er også rigtig godt, og det er en virkelig virkelig god tale!

Så bare lige nogle ting, som jeg så rettede, men ikke meningen at fornærme! Så det håber jeg ikke jeg har gjort

Absolut ikke . Jeg er selv meget sprogpernitten. Jeg oversætter bl.a. Yahoo!s danske kundekommunikation og IH, hvor kan vi diskutere meget frem og tilbage om ting lyder ordenligt eller ej.

[Guest Katharina Stendys]

Kender det alt for godt... Jeg går på en engelsktalende uddannelse, og er ved at gå baglæns over nogle af de vendinger og ordstillinger de andre vælger at bruge....

Men any whoo Så er det en flot tale, alle vil være rørt!